Back-to-School

Last night was back-to-school night at our local school. My neighbor invited us to go and see the facility and her children’s classrooms (grades 2, 4 and 6). Honestly, I had not the least desire to go, but somehow my excuse of Fritz’s swimming lesson (his is at 5 pm) didn’t matter much, and I ended up agreeing to bring the boys (but not Katie, my “I WANT to go to school” child) so they could see what they were missing.

The building is 5 years old, and very well done. When you walk into the center of the building, you can look out over a balcony to a nature pond below. There are cameras right inside the pond which are hooked up to computers inside the science lab which has a windowed wall overlooking said pond. Across from that is the two story glass enclosed “media center” aka library. The classrooms were warm and inviting and all had a computer center with several computers. It was really nice.

Still, though, I’ve not the least bit of regret that my children don’t go there. And neither of my boys mentioned any desire to attend (and they’re not ones to hold back on such disclosures).

I don’t have a nature pond, but Fritz did bury a can in the ground yesterday, carefully propping a large rock over the top. He’ll be checking his insect trap daily.

I don’t have a media center, but I do have a large selection of books ranging from children’s picture books to grown-up full color reference books. And our collection of classical music CDs grows every year. And we’re within walking distance of a big library whose card catalog I can access from the comfort of my home.

I don’t have a computer center, but I actually completely discourage the use of computers by my children. I’m trying to keep them in the dark ages. You know, like from 20 years ago when we had to use paper and pencil to communicate and books to learn stuff. Just call me old-fashioned.

As we walked to the different rooms, I noticed that the teachers had placed information packets on the desks. When the parents came through they collected the information from their child’s desk. We were in the late crowd – in fact, they began locking the doors as we left the building. I was struck by how many desks still had the papers on them, meaning that the parents had not stopped by. By the time we got to the 6th grade classroom, our last stop, perhaps fewer than half the parents had visited the teacher and gotten her agenda and expectations for the school year.

Sad.

My neighbor, a former homeschooler herself, would like us to reciprocate the open house adventure. My school room just needs a bit more work (I’m still a bit cluttered and disorganized), and then I’ll be happy to oblige. My school isn’t fancy, high-tech, or expensive. But we’re happy with it. And I think we’re producing a quality product.

On this Holy Day of Obligation…

A Mother’s Prayer Before Mass: Lord, thank you for bringing me here, and on time and unrushed too. I’m sorry we look so bedraggled and disheveled. I really didn’t realize that Jenny was wearing that shirt, but I should have known that Katie’s hair would take longer to detangle than the 10 minutes I had. I’ll try better next time. Lord, please help my children to be good, especially since they picked the very front row. And please help me to be patient and calm in correcting any misbehaviors. I’m very glad to be here today. Please help me pay attention to You and Your Word. Amen.


A Mother’s Prayer After Mass: Thank You.

Priorities

Well, we have started school.

It’s not going well. Today is Day Two, and I’ve threatened my boys with public school enrollment already.

Part of the problem is third trimester hormones. Excuses, excuses.

Most of the problem is my desire for my children to be safe around deep water, hence swimming lessons, hence a morning rush to get to the pool instead of sitting down for lessons. Then school is pushed to afternoon when I’m trying to get Pete to take a nap, and I’m tired and cranky and want to nap too.

Sometimes I’m not too bright.

The lessons are a good thing. A month ago, I had no confidence in any of my children around water over 4 feet deep. Family trips to the pool were in jeopardy out of concern for safety. But Fritz has turned into quite a good swimmer, and Billy is doing well too. There are only 6 more classes in this session, and I know that I will have two fewer children to stress about.

And, actually, perhaps the bad timing of the lessons was an important lesson for me. I arranged for piano lessons for the kids on Tuesdays during the day (beginning after swimming is over). That’s fine. My curriculum allows for one day of little to no work just for stuff like that. But the ladies at the chapel have been raving over the faith sharing group that meets on Thursday mornings. I want to go, but I knew it would be a stretch to be out of the house two mornings a week. No worries, the ladies said, we have a homeschool room. Oh, temptation! But my kids are too little for effective time in a homeschool room. They still need one-on-one lesson time with me – all of them. And I just don’t want to do it in the afternoon.

Now I know, thanks to swimming, how difficult it is when we don’t begin the day with school. Now I know just how grumpy I am in the afternoons, and I’m sure it won’t be any better when I have a newborn keeping me up at night.

We’ll get through this week and next. Swimming will end, and we can focus on school. I’ll stop yelling at the kids, and we’ll do our own faith formation in our own catechism class. The students and families here at this military school have been promised THE BEST YEAR OF THEIR LIVES with one caveat: realistic expectations and good priorities. Keep it simple, don’t over-extend your commitments, and enjoy life.

Okay, got it.

Simple addition

One toddler, confined to crib for nap time and fully capable of clothing removal…

Plus one stinky diaper (a post confinement occurrence)…

Equals one mess you have to experience to understand the depth of its yuckiness.

That…

Minus one nap for freshly bathed toddler…

Equals no nap for pregnant and exhausted mommy.

That…

Plus daily temperature exceeding 100 degrees…

Equals afternoon TV for the kids.

That…

Plus a dose of Tylenol for an emerging headache…

Hopefully equals a cheerier attitude, hopefully soon.

Movie Review: 300

Last night we took a break from our run of Humphrey Bogart films to watch 300. Bill had wanted to see it when it was in theaters, but that just didn’t happen. I finally remembered to put it on our Netflix queue, and it arrived yesterday.

Well, now.

It had a good soundtrack…

I had read that it was historically inaccurate, so I was not overly bothered by any of the details that didn’t mesh with actual Spartan warfare (fighting out of formation or without armor), real Spartan life (the claim of a “free” society), or real Greek culture (“God speed” says one fleeing Arcadian…God speed? Which god?).

And I knew this was based on a comic book, so I could be amused by the gravity-defying agility of the characters (gotta love computer animation!).

But I did not realize that this was a fantasy fiction…kind of like Sparta takes on the forces of Mordor. The Persian army seemed to be composed of wizards, orcs, and all sorts of amazingly deformed creatures that could only come out of the depths of hell. Heck, they even had oliphants. And what was up with that half man – half lobster (aka: the human guillotine) who looked like what “might have been” had the Karate Kid’s mom taken Thalidomide?

I understand the technique of portraying bad guys as inhuman…but really.

Beyond that, I really can’t say that the plot was captivating or that the characters were inspiring. I mean if a pregnant (read: highly emotional) soldier’s wife doesn’t feel particularly moved when she sees a scene where the queen receives the necklace her dead king wore in battle (and I tried, I tried) than you really haven’t done much in the way of character development.

The special effects were cool, I suppose. But I’m just too old now for lots of blood: it doesn’t excite me the way it used to. And all that slo-mo, stop-action fighting with people hovering in the air…I first saw that technique in The Matrix (it might be older than that for all I know), and that was eight years ago. There comes a point where it just seems passé (please note the use of the fancy “e” there…and many thanks to my BIL, Tom, who made that possible).

In the end, it wasn’t a total waste of my time. I rarely watch modern movies, and whenever I do, I feel so hep and a part of modern pop-culture. But even Bill agreed that it was better on DVD (as in free) than if we had paid to see it (and paid babysitters for the ability to see it).

For a bit, I’ll go back to old movies. We just got a collection of Roy Rogers films I think the kids will enjoy…and me too. No blood. No slow motion. But probably not a bad soundtrack.

…a bit more…

My sister, who is celebrating her birthday today, chastized me for not appreciating this movie. Apparently, I should have spent my time admiring the bare-chested actors to get the true essence of what the movie was all about. Silly me. But, when you live with this hunk o’ burnin’ love, I’m sure you realize why I just don’t notice those sorts of things:

And Esther also disagreed with my assessment. So please don’t allow my personal opinion to detract you from enjoying the film, if you like looking at men’s chests and think severed limbs and heads flying in slow motion across the screen are cool. My copy will be back at Netflix in a day or so.

Happy Catholic liked the bare-chested babes, too. I’m sorry, I still can’t get over the deformed guy who beheaded the inept general with his forearm.

More on Kitchen Madonnas

Several people asked where I got my Kitchen Madonna. My husband bought it for me for Christmas several years ago, and he likely found it at the local Catholic goods store.

Kasia pointed put that there are some on eBay. Just type Kitchen Madonna in the search box, and you’ll see some pretty ones.

Here‘s one at the Leaflet Missal that is similar to mine. They also sell this statue, which is quite nice.

I found some really beautiful alabaster statues on a marble base. They are so expensive, I won’t even bother with a link. This one, sold at EWTN, is pricey, too (not as expensive as the alabaster ones), but I think it’s gorgeous and somewhat reasonably priced. This would make a great gift, especially a group gift where everyone chips in $5 to get that special ministry leader a thank you present.

I found this cute clock for your kitschy kitchen. It’s only $3!

On the opposite extreme, if you are remodeling your kitchen and would like an interesting tile backsplash, this one is 30″ x 36″ and only $1,170. I’m sure by the time I ever get around to having a permanent home, I will have long forgotten about these hand-painted Portuguese tiles.

That’s all the time I have for browsing the internet. If anyone else provides a link in the com box, I’ll update this post. I know I’ve seen tons more in catalogs, including mine, I just don’t know where.

** Update: Elizabeth Marietti kindly sent the link to Discount Catholic Products which carries the exact Kitchen Madonna I have. They also have one in pewter and this pretty statue. Thanks, Elizabeth!

Thank you, Lord, for…

…air conditioning…

…refrigerators (take nothing for granted)…

…cold lemonade in ice-filled glasses…

air conditioning

…summer-times clothes that don’t take up much room in the washing machine (meaning I can skip a day or two and it won’t overwhelm me)…

…pool memberships…

…summer-time agendas that permit propping up one’s feet and drinking cold drinks…

…naturally cool basements…

…and, did I mention…air conditioning?

My Kitchen Madonna

Matilda is looking for pictures of Kitchen Madonnas or other images that help us “find a little Heaven amidst the saucepans and broomsticks.”

Here’s my kitchen counter just to the right of the sink. My KM is on the window sill.

It’s a dark picture, especially small. If you click on it, it looks better.

Here’s a closer look at my dinged (from multiple moves) and (eek) dirty KM. I just love the image of the Child Jesus asking his mother for some bread.

And I tell you, ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. What father among you would hand his son a snake when he asks for a fish? Or hand him a scorpion when he asks for an egg? If you then, who are wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him? (Luke 11:9-13)

If you have a Kitchen Madonna to post, let Matilda know. And me too!

How could I have forgotten that?

In the pre-dawn hours as I lie in bed still mostly asleep but starting to float to consciousness, I often remember important things that I have forgotten to take care of and require attention. This morning, it was:

Baby mill…I haven’t seen the baby mill…I’ve unpacked everything, but haven’t seen the baby mill…I’ve got to find it…

Because a newborn (due in two months) doesn’t need a bassinet or itty bitty diapers or receiving blankets or onsies or pajamas…all still in several boxes in the basement marked “baby stuff”…nearly as much as a food mill I might use sometime after the baby turns six months old.

I’ll get right on that…