Progress Reports

At school this week, we’re working on Week 19 out of 32. I think Week 20 is one of my favorite weeks, because 20 seems so close to the end. We’re well past half-way at this point, and it feels so good.

It’s also a good time to do progress reports. How are my students doing, and how am I doing as a teacher?

Reading:

Fritz finally seems to enjoy reading just to read. Of course, there are a million better ways to spend an afternoon, in his opinion, but it isn’t torture to get through a book. And bedtime reading is just fine. He still rushes and guesses words, and reads to get the gist more than full comprehension, but it’s definitely better. (Grade: B)

Billy is a strong and diligent reader. We have finished his Language Arts book already, and I’m just supplementing with other things for the rest of the year. (Grade: A)

Katie was having enough difficulty with her reader (Reader D of the Little Angel Reader series) that I stopped two weeks ago and made her go back to the beginning. She will read a word list with “aw” and “au” words just fine, and then completely forget how to pronounce those vowels three days later when we move on. It’s frustrating. I guess she just needs more practice. (Grade: C)

Jenny is starting to remember the names of letters and the sounds they make. She is nowhere near to being able to put those sounds together to form words. She is young, and I would not have put her in kindergarten this year if she attended a traditional school, so I’m happy with her progress. (Grade: VG)

Writing:

Fritz is working hard on formulating coherent paragraphs. He is learning how to use an outline to lay out his thoughts. He’s doing okay, depending on his mood and the assignment (if the subject is history, he enjoys the assignment; if it’s creative writing – “imagine you are a drop of water” – he mentally digs in his heels and seems unable to come up with a story). His handwriting is as neat as he wants it to be. His spelling is atrocious, but he’s progressing. (Overall Grade: B)

Billy is mostly doing copy work and retelling stories which I write for him to copy. He does fine, but has cleverly figured out that the shorter his oral narration, the less writing he has the next day. His handwriting is fine and his spelling is progressing. (Overall Grade: B+)

Katie is working on writing single sentences. She is capable of coming up with answers to her assignments, but asks how to spell every word. Her handwriting is getting better, and her spelling, when left to herself, is…creative. When she does writing on things not for school, she is freer in her expression and works independently. (Overall Grade: B)

Jenny is working on forming letters. She is progressing. (Grade: VG)

Arithmetic:

I pushed Fritz into 6th grade math this year (don’t tell him that though). It is challenging, but he is learning the material. (Grade: B)

Billy, like Fritz, has been pushed up a grade and is doing 4th grade math. Same difficulties, same results. (Grade: B)

Katie is progressing nicely in 2nd grade math. Some days she does better than others. (Grade: B)

Jenny has made progress in counting, identifying numbers, and in writing numbers. She had been forming most numbers backward, but now self-corrects most of the time. She is learning to add numbers, and is having no trouble with that concept. (Grade: O)

Other:

Katie seemed completely unable to memorize the states and capitals using flashcards. I tried to use written reinforcement, but even after printing “Montgomery, Alabama” three times a day for two months, she still could not tell me Alabama’s capital on a consistent basis. I just bought a states and capitals wooden puzzle with the capitals named under the pieces. She seems to be doing better, although I started on the West Coast.

Billy is able to do his science and history reading independently. This is tremendously helpful to me.

I am trying to get Fritz to work independently, but it is harder for him. He does well on history, average on science, and is terrible on Latin (note, in case Fritz reads this: I do not think Fritz is terrible in Latin, I think he is terrible in working alone on Latin). This week, we went all the way back to Lesson I and II to review the material. I do not think we will finish Latina Christiana I this year. That’s okay.

Teacher Self-Review:

Having four students plus a preschooler and a toddler is rough. The imperative goal for a diverse classroom is that older students be able to function on their own more and more. This requires me to let go and my students to pick up the slack. We’re muddling through. We’re better now than we were at the beginning of the year, but I still want to check that every i is dotted and t crossed. It is easier for me to let Billy work alone, since his reading skills are stronger and I read that material when Fritz was in 3rd grade.

It is also hard for me to accept that my children are not straight-A students. (Not the math grades, with which I am quite pleased, but in other subjects.) I was reading many grade levels ahead of my peers throughout my own schooling, and writing, especially creative writing, was never difficult. Memorization came easily, too. When my children do not behave the way I behaved as a student, I take it personally and consider myself a failure as a teacher. As unreasonable as it truly is, I think the one-on-one attention my students receive should boost them to near-genius level. Homeschoolers all begin college when they’re 15, right?

{sigh}

I am working on using more praise and less criticism. I’m trying to appreciate their talents while being patient with their struggles. Hardest of all, I’m trying to ensure that everyone gets the uninterrupted face time with me they need. There are many times throughout the day when I have 4 or more little people asking me for help all at the same time. It is frustrating for me, rude behavior for them, and completely counter-productive for us all. I do have methods I employ to minimize or prevent this, but we’re imperfect people here and we fail to follow the rules sometimes.

My overall grade: C+

10 thoughts on “Progress Reports

  1. Sounds to me like you all are doing really well, including teacher (I think you should have given yourself at least a B). I just send our application to MODG yesterday. We got a nice tax return, so I’m getting them in while I can. I’ll have three next year (third, first, and K), and I can’t thank you enough for recommended MODG. I signed up for the teacher assisted program for my oldest because she is still struggling with reading comprehension. Like you, I was reading way past her level at her age, and nothing I do seems to help her, only frustrate her. So, hoping for good things next year.

  2. You downgraded yourself too much. I think you deserve a grade at least as high as your student’s average grade…So at least a B+!

  3. Michelle, if your children are not working the way you did then it is obvious you should blame your husband. Was he a slacker in school? Does he give good example to the boys in terms of reading? Did he get ANY bad grades? You are doing a fab job, don’t be so hard on yourself. Not all homeschoolers go to college at 15, some wait until they are 16.5. Do you really want them invited to frat parties at that age anyway?

  4. I agree with Kat. I must be dad’s fault šŸ˜‰I do think you are being too hard on yourself. We all expect too much out of our children. If we didn’t, I don’t think they would ever succeed. Behind every successful man is a pushy mother šŸ˜‰Hang in there. It will get better, only to get worse when they become teenagers and really begin to question the life long value of what you are asking of them. . .Argh!

  5. I’ve heard (okay and maybe read) that the unexamined life is not worth living… but I’m not so sure. Right now I like the option of keeping my head in the sand. No adventures for me into the brave world of grading myself and my little blank tablets.You brave, brave, brave woman. Good for you!My top two will have to look back at this stage of their life and just wonder what kind of report card Mom would give them… cuz right now — I don’t want a written record of it anywhere. šŸ˜‰ Oh… and I’m not willing to write that it’s “Dad’s fault” and won’t confess to any thoughts of it… because I make it a habit not to offend people who carry guns on a regular basis.

  6. Actually, it is my fault. I was a horrible student and consider college lost opportunity for an education. The best thing I got for my +40k in tuition was a hot wife. (Did I just admit to getting an “MR” degree?)Maryan – don't worry, I only get to carry guns in really dangerous places…well not really b/c that would include DC, NY, & Phila. It has to be a hot, sandy, foreign and dangerous.

  7. Yep, I agree. You are being much too hard on yourself.

  8. What a great entry! I’m a friend of Amy Dennard’s and she recommended your blog to me. I really enjoy it! I especially enjoyed your progress reports. Something I need to do… for everyone. Keep up the good work. You are a blessing to your family!

  9. Oh, Bill, hmmm, nice to see you here! I didn’t know you would actually read your wife’s blog. What do you think about those Steelers?? Seriously, I think your kids are pretty smart and I would take all those “must be my husband’s fault” comments I heard from Michelle with a grain of salt. I know all my kid’s brains came from my dh, but they got his crossbite too, hence the $$ orthodontist bill. (trying to get back at Michelle for that comment on my blog about how great it would be for the government to dictate the sqfootage each of us would be allowed to have. All her sarcasm was lost of me and I thought she had lost her mind!)

  10. So that’s how it’s done! I’ve never been brave enough to do this…but the day of reconing is coming….

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