More on Mary

On Friday, the pediatrician told me that she was looking for one ounce per day of weight gain in the baby. Between her appointments on Wednesday, Thursday and that afternoon, she had far surpassed this expectation. So we put off another weight check until Wednesday – yesterday.

Yesterday, she had gained another 5 ounces in 5 days. Checking at home with the midwife’s scale, I was not surprised at her weigh-in, but I did hope that she would gain faster. Fortunately for my sanity, the doctor reminded me that this is a decent weight gain. Otherwise, I was running the risk of going off the deep end with supplementing. Right now, she gets about 6 ounces of formula a day spread out in two or three feedings. She has a ways to go to regain her birth weight, and until she does so, I won’t reduce that amount. The danger of giving her more is that she would nurse less, and that would be counterproductive to the ultimate goal of no supplementation.

Fortunately, she’s latching on well and she is mostly over the confusion between me and the bottle. Also, fortunately, I was finally able to view the videos at this site by Dr. Jack Newman on breast compression. This technique helps the weak nurser get more breast milk. I wish I had known about this years ago. I think even with my stronger nursers it might have helped them get more food in their tummy faster, and possibly given me a bit of a break in those early, arm-wearied weeks of a newborn’s life. Many thanks to Deborah, who sent me to this site (where the files are easier to read) and which linked to the site with the video.

Continued prayers for her weight gain are appreciated. Those offered up so far have been truly felt. My husband will attest that I’m not nearly as frustrated or weepy. Although I will say that weighing the baby at the end of the day when I am most tired is not good. I’ve resolved to weigh her no later than 4 pm, lest a minuscule increase in her weight combined with typical new baby exhaustion create an unpleasant flood of tears.

6 thoughts on “More on Mary

  1. You sound so much more upbeat! Keep up the great work – glad the compression helped!

  2. What a fabulous resource! I’ve never run across this doctor or that site before. Thanks for sharing. I’m going to save that link for future reference. I’d never thought of compression as a technique to keep baby on. I did however do something like that when I had mastitis, to help relieve the pressure in the areas of the breast that were engorged. All my kids got totally hosed with milk, kind of the reverse issue. It sounds to me like she’s doing a lot better. The weight gain is pretty good.

  3. Lord have Mercy! Continued prayers, but it sounds like good things are a growing!

  4. So glad things are going better! Prayers will continue.

  5. I am so sorry you are having such a hard time. The newborn weeks – or months! – are hard enough without adding health issues into mix. Still praying for you. 🙂

  6. Keep your heart up. We’re still praying. Thank you for the update.

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